A Slap to the Ego

by T Trolley

People talk about all kinds of embarrassing, humiliating holds or moves
that girls or women due to other girls or women during fights or wrestling
matches.

But a while back, I discovered that one of the most simple moves inherent
to every fighting female can be one of the most denigrating and humbling.

Sue and Karen just didn't like each other. Karen, at 19, was a year older
than Sue and had a lot of advantages over her. She was taller, a bit
heavier, and prettier than Sue as Karen was a cross between Denise Richards
and Julie Love Hewitt. Karen was a vivacious, yet at times quiet, woman who
could be very outgoing one minute and very introverted the next. She had
long blonde hair and a gorgeous figure that allowed her to pose as a
part-time model in some circles.

Sue, on the other hand, was very pretty but not quite in Karen's class.
Karen was gorgeous, Sue was cute in a Marie Osmond kind of way with short
brunette hair and was 5-5, weighing 117 lbs. That was two to three inches
shorter than Karen between five and 10 pounts lighter.

But Sue was more outgoing than Karen and very opinionated about
everything. I was dating Karen at the time and Sue had fallen for me, but
realized Karen was an obstacle in her way. She would constantly put down
Karen in my presence and brazenly go up to her, taunting her all the time.
Sue wanted to embarrass Karen and humiliate her to the point that I would
ditch Karen and be with her. Sue knew that Karen was prettier, but also knew
she was more athletic than Karen as Sue was a softball player, skier and
swimmer. Thus, she felt if she could prove to me that she could beat up
Karen and prove her to be a wimp and crybaby, then I would see her as the
better woman over Karen.

Karen always kept her cool when confronted by Sue's taunts, but the whole
situation was slowly getting to her. Finally, one day as I was alone with
Karen, she began to talk about Sue berating her and actually started to cry
on my shoulder!

She asked me what I thought she should do and I told her that Sue was just
trying to push her around and if she stood up to her, Sue would back off.
And, I continued, even if Sue didn't back down, she was bigger and stronger
than Sue and could probably beat her in a fight if it came to that.

Karen didn't like to fight. She had received a broken nose in the second
grade when somebody hit her in a kiddie dispute. That was a long time ago,
but the painful memory stuck with her. Karen told me she didn't really want
to fight Sue -- not that she didn't think she could beat her but just didn't
want either she or Sue to get hurt.

But in the following weeks, Sue's taunts kept getting worse and worse and
it was obvious that Karen was getting less and less tolerant of Sue.
Finally, Karen said she was angry and mad enough at Sue to fight her and
stop "Smartmout Sue" from insulting her.

I told Sue about Karen's willingness to fight her. Of course, that was
what Sue wanted all along and promised she'd beat up "the little wimp" once
and for all.

Both Sue and Karen had dental appointments the same day near noon. I knew
the dentist and his staff locked the doors from noon until 1 p.m. when they
went for their lunchbreak, making the lobby of the dentist's office the
perfect place for Karen and Sue to wrestle/fight each other.

Karen and I got to the office first and sat down in the lobby. Karen had
worn a cowgirl hat and also cutoff jeans at my suggestion, telling her they
would be the best attire for a wrestling match/fight like this. Karen had
long, tanned legs, but she was obviously nervous about the fight. She
hunched over in her chair and underneath her hat, bowed her head and was
reading a magazine with her wire rim glasses on -- glasses she rarely
wore -- as we waited for Sue, not saying a word.

Sue came in just a few minutes later, wearing cutoffs as well. Her legs
were smaller and less tanned than Karen, but they were well shaped and
gorgeous. She sat down and looked at Karen and smiled. Karen put her glasses
aside and looked up. The two women's eyes met and they glared at each other
as they sat on opposite sides of the lobby.

The receptionist then came out and said everyone was leaving for lunch.
They locked us in, and that was our cue. Sue walked around behind Karen as
Karen got up with a look of concern on her face. Suddenly, Sue grabbed
Karen's glasses and put them on her eyes! Karen glared at her, but didn't go
after her.

I told Sue to come up to the front of the lobby with Karen so I could
explain the ground rules to both of the teens. Karen still wore her cowgirl
hat and Sue was wearing Karen's glasses. But I noticed that Sue's haughty
attitude had disappeared and now she was just as nervous as Karen! In fact,
Sue was so nervous that she had forgotten to button up her cutoffs. "You'd
better button your shorts, Sue," I told her. Sue, nervously facing her
adversary knowing that soon the two would be fighting each other, had to
break free from her worried look she was giving Karen and looked down at her
shorts, saying, "Oh!" and buttoning them up quickly. It was obvious she was
embarrassed by the oversight, which had given away the fact that she was
worried about her fight against a bigger, taller and perhaps stronger woman
in Karen!

Then, as the two women looked at each other, I said, "Ready? Wrestle!"
Karen was still wearing her white cowgirl hat, but that didn't stay on her
head long as it went flying off immediately as the two went at each other!

Karen had the size advantage, but Sue already was showing me she was a
real scrapper! The two began to wrestle around the lobby with Karen using
her size to be the aggressor but Sue doing a good job in fending her off.

The two kept fighting each other until Sue ended up sitting on a chair
near the wall with Karen's glasses still on her eyes!

Bit Karen quickly slapped Sue's right cheek with her left hand! The
glasses flew off Sue's face -- and Sue just sat there for a few seconds,
stunned at the force of Karen's slap! Sue's eyes bugged out in surprise as
she looked dazed! Sue reached up to feel her cheeck, but never did succeed
as Karen continued her attack on the stunned Sue, driving her to the floor!

I couldn't believe it! Karen had literally slapped the taste out of Sue's
mouth!

I went over and picked up Karen's glasses and put them on the table as the
two teens continued their desperate struggle! Sue got up and dove for
Karen's legs, but Karen backed away and was able to fend Sue off -- as she
basically fended Sue off for the rest of the fight! Sue tried hard against
the bigger Karen and did well to avoid being pinned. In fact, she did quite
well against the larger girl and actually wrestled her quite evenly. But the
big slap to the face was the real telling blow as the move had stunned Sue
and put her on the defensive for the rest of the fight!

The girls kept struggling and fighting, but neither woman was strong
enough to overcome the other and finish the other off. Karen had Sue on her
knees several times and bent over beneath her, grabbing her by the forearms
and trying to twist her around and down to her back, but Sue resisted and
Karen just wasn't strong enough to complete the move. But Sue was having so
many problems with keeping Karen from overcoming her with her size that Sue
couldn't really mount an offense of her own and had her hands full simply
keeping Karen from pinning her!

I let them go on for awhile until 12:45. I stopped them then because I was
concerned that one of the dentist staff members might see Karen and Sue
fighting if they came back from lunch early. Both women were very tired,
gasping for air when I told them to stop. Neither Karen or Sue argued when I
stopped the match. Both were exhausted and it was just as well that I
stopped the match since it was clear that neither girl -- especially as
fatigued as they were -- would get a decisive victory.

I'm sure Sue thought the fight was a draw because neither girl had
out-and-out won the fight. But when I called the two women forward, I raised
Karen's right arm and said, "Winner!"

Sue, of course, was a little upset with me and looked angrily at me,
saying, "She didn't win! It was a draw! She didn't pin me!" But I looked at
her and said, "She slapped the taste out of your mouth. That's what gave her
the decision over you." Sue looked frustrated but just then, the
receptionist came back from lunch. Sue sat down along with Karen and Sue
didn't argue the point anymore!